The UNIGRAM

Monthly Newsletter of the Unitarian Universalist Society of Sacramento

Vol. 32 No. 12                                                                                August 2002

 

Unitarian Universalist Society of Sacramento

2425 Sierra Blvd., Sacramento CA 95825  (916) 483-9283

Activities/Information 483-9283 ext 208   Fax 483-4934  

 

Minister: The Reverend Douglas Kraft 

Director of Religious Education: Kate Throop

Business Manager: Clay Nelson

Organist: Barbara Lazar

Music Director: Mary WillAllen

Bookkeeper: Carole Petracek

Office Coordinator: Bobby Stewart

Office Assistant: Cynthia Creter

Building/Grounds Maintenance Mgr: Robert Hosley

Custodian: Elaine Cooper

Night Custodian: Bill LandonJones

 

A MONTH OF SUNDAYS – AUGUST 2002

 

Services at 10 a.m. in the Auditorium. See “Religious Education News” for more information on Summer Religious Education.

 

8/4                   

9:45-11:15 a.m. Room 11 – Infant and toddler care.

9:55 a.m.          Room 7/8 – Ages 5-12.

10 a.m.             Auditorium. “Spirituality and the Arts.” Rich Howard, JoAnn Anglin, coordinators. In this almost annual Spirituality and the Arts service, we will explore how poetry can be used as a healing tool, and how we each might find the gift that will serve as our own form of ministry.

8/11

9:45-11:15 a.m. Room 11 – Infant and toddler care.

9:55 a.m.          Room 7/8 – Ages 5-12.

10 a.m.             Auditorium. Devorah Greenstein speaks. Devorah  is a student at Starr King School for the Ministry, and she will serve as our Intern Minister next fall. See the June Unigram Page 4 for Devorah’s introduction to us.

8/18                 

9:45 a.m.          Rm 11 – Infant and toddler care.

9:55 a.m.          Rm 7/8 – Ages 5-12

10 a.m.             Auditorium. “The Circle is Open: Building Relationships,” Ministry Circle leaders. Each person’s spiritual journey is unique. No one can tell us what its goal should be, or which pathway will best take us there. But some of us profit greatly by sharing the events, the feelings, the doubts and wonderings we encounter with a small group of sympathetic Others twice a month, and with a leader to give us guidance and direction. We call them Ministry Circles, and they have been active at UUSS for over a year. Ministry Circle leaders will present background and how they work, and the service will contain a taste of elements of the Ministry Circle experience.

8/25

9:45-11:15 a.m. Room 11 – Infant and toddler care.

9:55 a.m.          Room 7/8 – Ages 5-12.

10 a.m.             Auditorium. “Allegiance,” Rev. Doug Kraft. At the core of the human heart is a sense of oneness and interdependence. Experiencing loyalty and support can be healing, particularly for a person who has felt wounded or oppressed. However, this healthy human need to bond can be distorted into something quite unhealthy. The sense of “us” can be twisted into “us versus them.” The reality of Oneness is supplanted by the illusion of duality. Creeds, statements of faith, and pledges of allegiance can be wonderful if they are truly spontaneous expressions of belonging. But as tests of membership or instruments of exclusion they emphasize “us versus them.” They bring out the worst in human nature. The current flap over the Pledge of Allegiance raises these and other issues. –Doug Kraft

 

SEPTEMBER 1 – LAST SUMMER SERVICE

9/1

9:45 –11:15 a.m Room 11 – Infant and toddler care.

9:55 a.m.          Room 7/8 – Ages 5-12.

10 a.m. Auditorium – “1+1=One.” Theater One with a presentation on the theme of “one from many,” looking forward to our new Sunday schedule, where as one congregation we divide our attendance in two services.

 

NEW SCHEDULE BEGINS SEPTEMBER 8!!

At a special Congregational Meeting on January 27, 2002, we voted to schedule two religious services on Sundays during the regular church year, one at 9 a.m. and one at 11 a.m. Crowding at the Sunday services had made it difficult for everyone to find a seat, and a Task Force was formed to study our options and conduct a survey of the congregation. By a margin of 5 to 1, those returning the surveys were in favor of adding a second morning service. The Forum has decided to present their speakers at 1 p.m., after lunch. Here’s the schedule to begin September 8:

            8:30 a.m.-12:30 pm        Childcare in Room 11

            9-10 a.m.                      Worship service in Main Hall

            9-10 a.m.                      Religious Education for Preschool-6th grade

            10:15-10:45 a.m.            Choir rehearsal in Main Hall

            11 a.m.-12:15 p.m.        Worship service in Main Hall

            11 a.m.-12:15 p.m.        Religious Education for Preschool-Senior High

            12:15-1 p.m.                  Lunch

            1 p.m.                           Forum in Main Hall

 

A reminder:   The September 8 In-gathering service will include a water ceremony, so don’t forget to bring back a sample of water from your travels this summer.

 

PRESIDENT’S LETTER

 

“I love the mountains, I love the rolling hills;

I love the flowers, I love the daffodils;

I love the fireside, when all the lights are low;

Boom-di-yadda, boom-di-yadda

Boom-di-yadda, boom-di-yadda...”

   Cruising along the rivers and byways of southwestern France this past June, sometimes Clair, Carl, Carol, Anna, Joan, Bud, Mary and I couldn’t help bursting into song, with joy and gusto and a surprising degree of harmony. We had a great trip, and the memories will last a lifetime.

   Now as I reflect back, I wonder if I can put my finger on some of the things that made it so memorable. There was lots of planning and preparation beforehand, and that paid off nicely to be sure. Selecting a destination that regaled us with beauty and inspiring vistas day in and day out helped a lot. Nevertheless, our consensus was that the highlight of the whole thing was our own camaraderie and compatibility. There was an openness to new experiences. We had our misadventures, but everyone kept a sense of humor. We were flexible. Everyone seemed to acknowledge and appreciate the effort it sometimes took to communicate. We watched out for one another. Everybody pitched in with chores.  We shared expenses. We all took delight in simple accomplishments, like figuring out where we were and where were heading.

   Well bless my soul if those aren’t qualities that each of us is quite capable of displaying even here, back in our everyday world, back at UUSS! Isn’t it our deepest wish, after all, to travel together with open minds, open hearts, and helping hands?  What if we all pressed ourselves a little more to live up to the values expressed in our Covenant? I’ll bet we would find that it is possible to feel the lightness and warmth of summer vacation at any time of the year at UUSS and whenever and wherever UUs get together!

   OK, everybody:

Boom-di-yadda, boom-di-yadda

Boom-di-yadda, boom-di-yadda!             

Tiffany Urness

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

R.E. August Calendar

 

August 4 – “Koluscap and the Water Monster”

August 11 – “Old Man Coyote and the Rock” (if you’re

                    a rock hound, bring a favorite rock to show)

August 18 – Dreams & Dreamcatchers

August 25 – “Loo-Wit the Firekeeper”

(Kate on vacation from August 14 – 21)

 

Save the Date!   SATURDAY,  AUGUST 24

9 a.m. – 3  p.m.

Orientation and Teacher Training for all R.E.volunteers.

Childcare and lunch will be provided!  Please RSVP for childcare to Kate at 483-9283 x203, no later than August 12.

 

   Our 2002-03 Program Book will be mailed to all families who have registered for Religious Education by  August 15. Please do your part and complete a registration form NOW if you have not already done so! (A list of families  registered so far is posted in the R.E. office).

 

Help Wanted!

 

From August 1–25 applications will be accepted for three part-time paid positions working with our children and youth. Please call the R.E. office (483-9283 x203) to request a complete job description, or pick up the job description after Sunday, July 28, in the R.E. office or at the R.E. Table. Applicants are asked to send a current resume and letter of interest to

Kate Throop, Director of Religious Education

 c/o UUSS

 2425 Sierra Blvd.

 Sacramento CA 95825.

 

SUNDAY ASSISTANT

To help with classroom and materials preparation, greet new families, and assist teachers and other volunteers as needed. Works under supervision of DRE. Successful applicant will undergo Dept. of Justice background check paid for by UUSS.

Sunday mornings from 8:45 a.m. until 12:45 a.m. $10/hour. Will work most Sundays from Sept.–May.

 

CHILDCARE ASSISTANT

Works with Childcare Supervisor Nancy Beach to monitor activities in Room 11 and on the playground, greet new families, and help maintain a safe and nurturing environment for babies and toddlers. Successful applicant will undergo Dept. of Justice background check paid for by UUSS.

Sunday mornings from 9:00 a.m. until 12:15 p.m.  $10/hour. Will work most Sundays from Sept.–May.

 

SENIOR HIGH YOUTH ADVISOR

A 9-month (Sept.–May) position @ $100/month. Will work three Sunday mornings per month from 10:45 a.m.–12:15 p.m. - some holiday weekends off. Responsibilities include maintaining current contact information for UUSS Senior High Youth Group; communicating via postal mail and email to notify group of coming events; work in partnership with volunteer youth leaders and DRE to maintain good communication; attend two overnights (Saturdays) at UUSS; maintain communications with PCD R.E. Consultant and be willing to accompany at least one District event with UUSS youth (supported by additional volunteers); supervised by DRE. In keeping with UUA and PCD guidelines, applicants for the position of Youth Advisor must be at least 25 years of age. Successful applicant will undergo Dept. of Justice background check paid for by UUSS.

 

 

UUSS NEWS

 

Help Wanted!

From August 1–25 applications will be accepted for three part-time paid positions working with our children and youth. See Religious Education News for details.

 

Remember Those Sunday Chores

 

A reminder: Please, when you receive a letter assigning you to be an usher, greeter, welcomer, or hospitality person, and are unable to make the assigned date, do arrange to switch with another member. (By now you have received a current list of substitutes too.) If you find it impossible to carry out any of these tasks, let the office know and have them remove your name from the duty roster. Thanks.

Jim Yankauer

 

Forum Announces Two Speakers

Make your suggestions on August 10

Exciting programs are planned for the upcoming Forum season beginning September 8. With its new starting time of 1 p.m., the Forum will offer a variety of speakers and topics, including:  “The Chocolate Party: Our Role in Stopping Global Child Slavery,” presented by Melissa Schweigsguth of the Global Exchange on September 22. 

Wilson Riles, Jr., who ran for Mayor of Oakland against Jerry Brown, will speak on “Understanding Hate” on October 6.  Other topics under consideration for speakers are alternatives to military globalization, racial issues, education, social reform, and the arts.  

   The Forum Committee invites you to attend their next monthly committee meeting, Saturday, August 10, 10 a.m. in Room 12. Your help is greatly appreciated!

 David Paul

 

DENOMINATIONAL AFFAIRS

 

GA 2002 ala Quebec

 

Our General Assembly  (GA) held in Quebec City, Canada, this year was wonderful. The band that performed for the opening celebration and banner parade provided local ambiance with their folksy rock style  complete with fiddle.

   Each workshop session offered at least 25 titles to choose from. The formal discussion in workshops was enlightening, as was all the informal conversation one had along the way—standing in line, sitting on a bench taking a break. I ordered a videotape of the Ware Lecture. We will have a showing after lunch in the fall.

   The part I enjoy the most is seeing what wonderful kids we have. GA is a great place to go with the whole family or with the youth group. Our youth seem to find a central place to congregate to hang out, talk, sleep, hacky-sack, and play guitars, while parents can cruise by to see that all is well without being too intrusive.

   GA is in Boston next year and in Long Beach CA in the year 2004. Please make plans to join us.

Be Patterson

 

UU Men’s Retreat

October 18-20 in Alamo

 

For five years UU men have gathered for a weekend in October. We’ve played, explored, meditated, and sung. Above all we reconnected with old friends, made new ones, and learned from one another.

   Come and meet old friends or be welcomed as new friends participating in structured exercises, informed exchanges, and fun in a relaxed friendly environment.

   This year our theme is “Making the Real Me - - More Real.” In this we will discover, examine, and share the values and priorities that guide our real-world choices and reflect how and why these may evolve during our lives.

   The retreat will be held the weekend of October 18-20 at the Westminster Retreat Center in Alamo, near Walnut Creek. An early registration fee of $175 ($200 following October 1) covers meals, lodging, and workshop materials. Scholarships may be available.

   To learn more or to register contact Agustin Gurule or email him. You can also access our website at www.pcd-uua.org: click on “Men’s Pages,” then “Men’s Retreat 2002.”

Bob Oyafuso

 

OUTREACH

 

Women’s Peace Event is August 6

On Hiroshima Day, Tuesday August 6, the 16th Annual August Women’s Peace Event takes place at the downtown Y.W.C.A., 17th & L Streets, 5:30-8:30 p.m. The 6 p.m. program includes Antioch Baptist Children’s Choir, Buddhist Taiko drummers, Baladna dancers, the “Peace Teacher of the Year” award, and speaker Rev. Sally Grover Gingham, world renowned environmental activist.

   Child care (under 5) available by prearrangement, call 441-7054. Celebrating the interconnectedness of the peoples and cultures of the planet, this broadly sponsored event wishes to inspire activism for world peace, undergirded by economic and social justice. Light refreshments at 5:30 p.m. Ticket $3-15, sliding scale. For information call me.

Ruth Hultgren

 

Social Responsibility Committee Meets Twice

You are invited to attend August 4 and 11

 

The Social Responsibility Committee will meet on the first and second Sundays of August at 11:30 a.m. A new schedule will be set up for the fall. For further information, call me at 371-4007.The committee now has three official subcommittees:

Economic Globalization: The members are actively pursuing an economic globalization plan to educate the committee and the congregation. Watch for weekly inserts in the blue sheet inside the order of service. They meet on the third Wednesday of each month at UUSS at 7 p.m. and present a report or program on the second meeting of the Social Responsibility Committee each month. Call Susan Oldland or Cory Fulton.

Interfaith Hospitality Network Group: Nancy Oprsal, chair. They are working with a group of local churches planning to provide shelter, meals, and support to homeless families. The group hopes to have the project in place by May 2003.

Organization of the Month subcommittee: Rosmaire Duffy  is developing  criteria for organizations which will receive our collection once a month. Arnie Godmintz is listing  community organizations that  may qualify, and the subcommittee will set up a process to receive suggestions by the congregation for organizations.

Joyce Miller

 

CABBAGES & KINGS

Here are some miscellaneous Business-Manager-kind-of -thoughts in the midst of these lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer:

Credit Cards

   Many of you know that you can arrange to have your pledge paid automatically from your VISA or MasterCard, but did you know you could also use your VISA or MasterCard Debit Card?  Many members are now using one of these methods to keep their pledge up to date. Not only is it convenient, if your credit card has a frequent flyer arrangement you are not only supporting UUSS but planning next summer’s vacation to a far away place.

   Not only are credit cards accepted for pledges, they can be used for any of our fundraisers, buying tickets to UUSS events like Theater One, or renting our facilities (at special member rates). For your convenience, if you call our bookkeeper, Carole, and give her your credit card number to have on file, all you will have to do is say “Charge it!” when carrying out your business with UUSS.

Cash Flow

   Summer time in a UU congregation is always a little slower, which is reflected in a lower Sunday attendance. In such times it is not uncommon for folks to fall behind on their pledges until they show up for the Water Ceremony in September, which corresponds with when our cash again flows more freely. However, in July and August it is pretty dry around here, which is unfortunate since our costs remain unchanged. It would greatly reduce the number of sleepless nights your Business Manager and Bookkeepers have, if you could do your best to stay caught up. If it is just a matter of remembering to send it in, you might consider the topic above.

Web Site

   Have you visited our virtual UUSS yet? Miss one of Doug’s sermons?  Go to our website at www.uuss.org and you will find all of his sermons. Need to see this week’s calendar? Need to email staff, board members, or committee chairs? Want to read what the Board did at their last meeting? Want to read this month’s Unigram or look up a past issue? Want to know what is happening in Religious Education? Want to know who is speaking at the Forum? Need a form to rent a room? Go to www.uuss.org. If something that you would find helpful is not there, email with your suggestions, I will try to add them. If you find an error or something that needs updating, please email .

Did you know?

Did you know that you can communicate with any of the staff via email by using their firstname@uuss.org or that you can send a message to all the staff at once by sending your message to staff@uuss.org ? You can also communicate with your Board of Trustees the same way by sending a message to BOT@uuss.org and everyone will get the message.    

Clay Nelson, Business Manager

 

UUs GET TOGETHER

Gap Group Goes to the Ball Game

The Gap Group is a loosely organized group of middle-aged people, both married and single, who enjoy getting together for social occasions. New people are always welcome. Please call me  or e-mail me for more information.

Saturday, August 24 we will join other UUs at the ball game—see below “Join UUs at the Ball Park.”

Cathy George

 

Round Robin Bridge Games

 

The Round Robin Bridge games will begin again this fall, depending on the number of interested players who would like to sign up before August 30th. Monthly foursomes will be arranged for September through May or June, when the Grand Finale to celebrate the winners takes place. All levels of bridge skills are encouraged because this event is meant for fun and enjoyment and for meeting and getting to know one another. We welcome all interested persons, singles and couples.

   The annual donation is $15 per person, which (except for the prize money) is donated to the Society. To sign up, call Betty Faist or Jane Pivetti by August 30. Mail your $15 check made out to UUSS and labeled BRIDGE to UUSS, Jane or Betty or place in the Bridge folder in the church mail room.

Betty Faist and Jane Pivetti

 

Work With Your Dreams

 

Tap into the wisdom you were born with by working with your dreams. Our open Dream Group meets every Wednesday from 10 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. in the church library. No experience is necessary. For more information call me

Fran Oyafuso

 

Calling All Crafters

Now is the time to start preparing your craft items and food specialties to sell at the holiday Members’ Market November 24 or December 8, after Sunday services. All proceeds go to the church. Call me if you have any questions or for information about getting together at Gayle Voeller’s to work on crafts.

Barbara Amberson

Join a Ministry Circle

 

Want to join a small group of UUSS members and friends who meet biweekly in homes to explore and share their spiritual or ethical journeys? For more information, pick up a Ministry Circle brochure and application in the church office or at the greeters’ table after Sunday service.

 Fran Oyafuso

 

Senior Support Group Meets

 

The Senior Support Group meets in the church Library  at 10:30 a.m. : July 29 (Ted Ruhig will speak on senior politics),  August 5, and August 19. The group is open to all seniors. Who is a senior? You select yourself by coming—our current attendees range from the 50s to the 80s.

  Barbara Amberson

 

UU Young Adults Meet

 5 August Weekends

Shakespeare, rafting, camping, dancing…

 

UU Young Adults are Unitarian Universalists in their 20s and 30s, from both the UU Community Church (UUCC) and the UU Society of Sacramento (UUSS). Some of us are single, some are married, and some are in between. Newcomers are always welcome! The group usually meets on Sundays at 7 p.m. in the UUSS library, but this month we have offsite events every weekend instead. (Contact UUCC member Mark Callicotte or call Laura Dickinson to check on the latest plans). To join our e-mail collective, send a message to Dean Baird.

8/3 Saturday, 8:30 p.m. Sacramento Shakespeare in the Park –”Much Ado About Nothing.” Bring a picnic dinner and meet at 7 p.m. at the box office, William A. Carroll Amphitheatre in William Land Park.  Shakespeare’s great comedy is well-directed by Kim McCann and excellently performed by a City Theatre cast. Tickets $12 at (916) 558-2228. No reservations, no children under 6. Box office opens at 6 p.m., gates open at 6:30. Shows begin at 8:30 p.m. Lawn chairs with no legs are allowed, picnics welcome. Call Laura for more details.

8/10 Saturday 8:17 p.m. Daniel and Vikki’s Funk Defied Housewarming Party. For directions and more information call Daniel and Vikki.  Bring a conversation starter. Bring a friend. Call Daniel if you need more details, or just want to know what any of this means!

8/16  Friday & 8/17 Saturday.  Camping with UUCC friends and family. To reserve your place for UUCC Camp 2002, please contact Peter or Chris. Call Laura Dickinson for car-pool information. UUCC has reserved a larger site this year near French Meadows reservoir, at 5,200 feet nestled just east of the Granite Chief wilderness. The campsite is above the reservoir along the Middle Fork of the American River, about 2 1/2 hours from Sacramento along Mosquito Ridge Road out of Forest Hill. The site has 20 plus tent pads, picnic tables, BBQ, running water and vault toilets. The cost per family: usually $10 or less, depending on how many attend. This is always a good time, so we hope YOU can make it.

8/24 Saturday , 7:30 p.m. Contra Dancing. Meet at the YWCA, 1122 17th St. (near 17th & L) at 7:30 p.m. for beginners’ lessons and 8 p.m. for the Dance. See if you have two left feet, two right feet, or are the next Fred or Ginger. Please call Michelle for more details.

8/31 Saturday Labor Day Weekend. Poetry Rafting. Raft, Soak in the Sun, and Read Poetry Down the Lower American River. Meet at 10 a.m. at the church parking lot to car-pool. Don’t expect to get back before 6 p.m. Our first trip down the American River was so successful that we are going again! But this time we are adding a little class and culture to the trip. Bring your favorite lazy summer afternoon poetry (your own or otherwise) to share…in-between water fights! No rafting or poetry experience necessary, just an appreciation of both. Call Michelle Wood by 9 p.m. on August 11 (Sunday) so that she can make the required advance reservations. She’ll reserve an extra space or two just in case....

Bring: $17 maximum price for raft rental, shuttle & launch fee (may be less). If you have a tube, canoe, or kayak, feel free to bring it—and $2 launch fee—instead of renting a raft. Sunblock, shirt to pull on should you need a break from the sun, hat (this means you Mark); sunglasses; straps for glasses and hat; cooler with food & beverages (we may be able to share); bathing suit/shorts; shoes or sandals (that can get wet); water weaponry (last time our group was pathetically under-armed!); copies of poetry in a zip-lock baggy (bring originals at your own risk!). Our very own Nate suggested www.poemranker.com for poem ideas.

 

Advance Notice: Sunday, September 1

9/1   7 p.m. at the UUSS Library: Book Seminar .Nate Mahoney will host; we will discuss “Botany of Desire” by Michael Pollen. If everybody likes this format we can look into having a book seminar every four to six weeks. Please call Nate for more details. You can see the book at: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0375760393/qid=1026113069/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_1/104-9963299-7932756#product-details.

Laura Dickinson

 

Join UUs at the Ball Park

It’s nearly time to come to the ball park! Plenty of seats are still available for the Saturday, August 24 game at UUSS Night at the Raley Field when the River Cats play the Fresno Grizzlies at 7:05 p.m.  We have 36 seats available for $9 per ticket.

   Get your reservation in now by sending a check for $9/ticket  to: David Paul.

   Bring your family and a friend. See you at the game on August 24!

David Paul

Servetus Club, a social group for older singles, will meet August 4 for a backyard potluck. Call the office for details (483-9283 ext. 204).

 Dorothy Engelstad