October Theme is Deep Listening
Posted by Rev Lucy
Posted on October 2, 2024
Welcome to October.
Here are some thoughts on deep listening from the Soul Matters materials:
Listening helps us find our way. The listening of therapists allows us to navigate our way through life. We turn to prayer to hear God’s guidance. We listen to experts so we can get ahead. Like a flashlight that leads us through the darkness, listening helps us stay on course.
And yet maybe there’s more to it than that. What if listening doesn’t just guide us through the world, but also creates our world.
Just think about why you listen to those close to you. Is it really just to gather information? To hear the other clearly? Or is it because you’ve discovered in those rare moments of deep listening that a space suddenly opens up between and around the two of you? A space that is radically different than the space you inhabited a few minutes prior. A space that feels sacred.
Listening’s value isn’t just instrumental. It doesn’t just help us collect and clarify information. It’s not just a tool. It’s a place!
That sacred space of being deeply listened to isn’t just calling us home; it is home. We don’t have conversations; we are our conversations. Listening literally constructs the world we live in. And whom we become.
One wonders if this is why the poet says, “Listen carefully. Your whole life might depend on what you hear.”
Again friends, we must remember this: We don’t have conversations, we are our conversations. Who and what we listen to is who and what we become.
May this month, and our time together in our groups, help us take one more step toward listening our way home.
